Have you been looking for soulmate signs? If not, you should be. Meeting your soulmate is one of life's most amazing events for one reason: it can't be fully predicted or planned. As human beings of the 21st century, we crave control.
The most 'Type A' of us plan almost every aspect of our day from what time we wake, to what color socks we put on, to what we will eat for dinner, and what time we will pull back the sheets. But as much as we love to think that we have it all under control, we have a very loose grip on the fate aspects of love.
But this doesn't mean we can't be on the lookout for Cupid's arrows. When you meet a person, there are usually signs they're your soulmate. It is these soulmate signs that answer the age-old question, "How do you know someone is your soulmate."
The cool part? Some of them happen before the first meeting ever happens.
Five Signs You're About to Meet Your Soulmate
You've been hurt in the past. Every once in a while, you will hear about someone who met the love of their life in high school, married them and lived happily ever after. As beautiful as this type of karmic connection is, it is unusual and rare.
Why? This involves very little growth for the soul. More often than not, our soulmates arrive after a heartbreak or two..or for some, ten.
You've made it through your healing phase. Ten or more heartbreaks usually happen to us stubborn people who try to bypass the healing process and jump back into another relationship without 'doing the work' of number three on this list. This gives birth to the exact thing that we don't want--attracting the wrong partner over and over. Finally, focusing on healing will put you in a position to attract your forever love.
You're practicing self-care. But healing isn't a 'one and done.' In fact, it is usually a life-long process. So, making sure you are actively practicing self-care is important to staying on track. What does this mean? You are actively choosing to say and do things that are in your best interest and for your betterment. Things that help you and do not harm you in any way. Self-care keeps your vibration high and attracts what you want instead of what you don't.
You know what you want. But what exactly do you want in a partner? If you can't write a five-paragraph essay answering this question, you're going to have a hard time attracting your forever love. To attract what you want, you have to set an intention and tell the Universe what is desired. Making a list today is a good place to start! Just make sure you are writing in 'positives' and not 'don't want.'
You're finally in alignment. You'll know that your soulmate is on their way when you are fully in alignment for everything of your highest good and attracting really good people and experiences. This period feels like a time of good luck and perfect timing. You won't have to question it or force it. Everything will just feel right.
How To Know If Someone Is Your Soulmate
The
best love psychics will tell you that figuring out how to know if someone is your soulmate is one of the most common questions someone asks during a reading.
You meet them at the right time. Again, you're going to meet your soulmate during the perfect time. This is usually a time when you've surrendered your need to find love and given up on the idea altogether (isn't it funny how the Universe responds to release?)
They check the four main boxes. Opposites may attract, but if your person doesn't check off the major ingredients in these four main boxes of compatibility (physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual,) they are probably a lesson and not a lifetime love.
You feel like you've known each other forever. Soulmates have usually been together in several lifetimes, so you'll usually feel like you've known this person forever, even when you first meet. It's important to still get to know them and make sure your values align. But this deep knowledge is one of the soulmate signs that they could be the one.
Things seem to flow effortlessly. With soulmates, the relationship usually has an easy flow to it. When we've been through toxic situations or relationship fits that were just not right for us, we sometimes get the wrong idea that intimate connections take a lot of work to maintain. This isn't necessarily true. With your soulmate, things won't need to be forced.
You learn and grow with each other. Of course, this doesn't mean that you won't have challenges. Any relationship, especially one with your soulmate, will require you to move out of your comfort zone. They will require you to grow and accept parts of yourself you never knew existed. This is one of the signs they're your soulmate!
Pay Attention To The Signs
Now that you know the signs, you'll need to pay attention to them. This is one of those suggestions that seems so simple but is hard to put into action. This is especially true when the hustle and bustle of our daily lives can be distracting. So, how can we accomplish this?
Be mindful and practice gratitude.
That's right. The trick to noticing soulmate signs is making sure you are focused on the present and (not the future) and being really grateful for the meantime. This is an attitude that has to be adopted, but actions like journaling, writing gratitude letters, practicing yoga, and meditating can help.
Ask A Psychic
Still not sure if you've met your person or if you're getting ready to? Reaching out to one of the
most accurate psychics on the internet might be the right move.
There are no coincidences, so if you were drawn to this article, it was for a reason. Although the meeting of your soulmate can't be fully predicted, a reputable psychic will be able to give you amazing insight into your love life--past, present, and future. They can also let you know about any blockages you have that are stopping you from attracting your forever love or seeing the soulmate signs being sent your way.